Comments on South Asia Blog: Wife swapping in India: A Growing bad Business

wife swapping is a welcome and healthy practice as...

2010-06-28T12:18:16.578-07:00

wife swapping is a welcome and healthy practice as long as it is voluntary by both the partners and between the willing and healthy and honest partners. It is strictly personal and private.

A word of caution is partners should not get in to love with others spouses and divorce their own partners.

Another most important thing is it should be purely for pleasure there should not be any
commercial or selfish angle. otherwise it will lead to many complications. PLEASE- SPECIALLY HUSBANDS= DO NOT LINK PROMOTION OR FINANCIAL GAIN WITH WIFE SWAPPING.

hmm

2010-06-22T01:17:59.716-07:00

hmm

Wife swapping can be nice, but then, Indian langua...

2010-05-24T10:27:01.503-07:00

Wife swapping can be nice, but then, Indian languages have a feudal structure, with the wife having a specific position in it. For exampe, in south INdia, she is a Nee to her husband. Many other connected words also are in the same position. If wife swapping is done, these words can come in the possessio of the other male, and then life can be really intolerable. Understand this, before running off to enjoy the thrill. In English, this proble is not there.

It looks nice n enjoyale in fantasy but in reality...

2010-05-12T01:34:38.713-07:00

It looks nice n enjoyale in fantasy but in reality it may be involve many complications

If it is consensual for both the husband and the w...

2010-05-11T21:06:54.536-07:00

If it is consensual for both the husband and the wife, I don't think there would be a problem as long as they trust each other a lot. I personally know an Indian married couple who indulged in this act many many years ago and continued with the same couple for some time. They have now found another younger couple and they are truly very happy with their lives so far. In fact, their marriage is even stronger. I guess it depends on how you look at things.

ok guys... lot of crap.. i have just one thing to ...

2010-05-04T12:28:00.444-07:00

ok guys... lot of crap.. i have just one thing to say.. if you have to be indulging in wife swapping, you were never meant to be married. You already have an unsuccesfull mariage and to fill that void ppl go for wife swapping. make marriage and divorce easier legal procedures. If ppl really like swinging y get married?? be good enough to have options.. its a funny world.. have to say.. and funny bunch of loosers are always around to coat their greed and desire with empty baseless justifications.. ok anyway... good luck to all guys who have no direction in life.. keep swinging..

we are 33M and 28F, enjoyed regular sex to peak an...

2010-05-03T03:36:18.583-07:00

we are 33M and 28F, enjoyed regular sex to peak and tried wife swapping with nice couple ... and it has been a practice for us to exchange paterners on any vacation / festival... etc. this helped our relationship stronger and open minded without any secrets which eases our mind peacefully. No negativity in it. even we are open for group as well... just looking for right combinations. this is indian culture just look at khajuraho / or read books like ashtapadulu for unlimited LOVE hidden in ancient india.

many attractive and sexy women are deprived of sex...

2010-04-22T16:03:34.944-07:00

many attractive and sexy women are deprived of sex as their husbands do not find interest in having sex with same person or to say that they had enough of it with their sexy wives. This poor sexy wife unnecessarily suffers from lack of sex resulting in depression and causing an illness. I think wife swapping is a cheap cure for it. Go for it and enjoy. Even less attractive woman becomes desirable for others even though one may have sexy wife and what is wrong in making less desirable wife feel happy and sexually fulfilled by this wife swapping.

I am 55 years old male with 30 years married life ...

2010-04-22T11:36:33.579-07:00

I am 55 years old male with 30 years married life and sexually very active and I feel both myself and my wife are fed up with the same routines and after undergoing sterilisation feel there is no harm in swapping provided it is done secretly that is without the knowledge of the persons you know.Just like eating the same food over & over again resulting in distaste, it is better if couple indulges in swapping with healthy couples.Actutally the idea of swapping was not liked earlier by some because of the legal complications like child birth wherein the parentage and property problems, but after sterilization techniques etc. this problem is solved. However, the problem of emotional attachment between consensual sexual partners do remain. Hence without the headache of emotional involvement, if swapping is done to have additional taste in sex, it is fine.

ya it may be a very exciting experience to swap bu...

2010-04-14T10:49:19.153-07:00

ya it may be a very exciting experience to swap but enjoyment of a couple of hours will result in disturbance of their married life at least if not 100% than there are fairly good chances of ruining the relationship because at certain time it will definitely come in to the minds of both (husband & wife) that he/she is more enjoying or more interested in other person and more over as per our brought up in indian culture swapping will definitely result in decrease of respect towards each other as there is always a thing which is being shared between husband & wife only but it wont be any more if u swap.

ys its a good concept to be accepted by the couple...

2010-04-08T02:42:51.860-07:00

ys its a good concept to be accepted by the couples wjo are mentaly ready for it . this is not for the pls who do nt belive on each other aprtner. there is no problme by doing this . it always give u the chance to meet new good friends who like to share their personal viws with u so, its ok.

Hi .. I am a 23 year old male .. unmarried. I beli...

2010-03-10T00:11:23.935-08:00

Hi .. I am a 23 year old male .. unmarried.
I believe that wife swapping is a healthy trend in India,though resented by many.
If the husband and wife both are ready for it then what's the harm? In fact,this bonds the couple together as both get the taste of "other foods". In fact,I would love to see my wife moaning with pleasure when "he" is screwing her ! I would definitely go for swinging lifestyle ..... but it should be with a single trusted couple .. that's it !

i guess wife swapping is increasing in India, firs...

2010-03-04T04:04:16.460-08:00

i guess wife swapping is increasing in India, first of all the way the idea had been introduced to them as"cool" or "in" by the media, such as the television, movies and especially the internet made it easier for them to accept. Their minds were slowly set in manner of thinking that its a way of making your relationship stronger or it prevents divorce amongst those who are in a rocky stage. That by doing wife swapping you allow your partner to explore and satisfy his/her sexual needs, making them look like, they are sensitive to each others needs. But the truth is, its a lame excuse of getting laid and tasting "other food". Also, let's not forget that most marriages are still arranged, by parents and mostly, couples who get married are not emotionally attached to each other. Making it easier for both partners to agree in such ridiculous idea. I mean common! But who would suffer most in the long run..noone else but their children! Just think what your children would say once they find out that their dad who they consider as their hero and their mother who is a devoted housewife is having different sex partners! worst part is with his father's consent and vice versa! it's just plain disgusting..And no matter how parents try to hide it from their children, you know how the saying goes "no secret is left unraveled"

in india wife swapping is not incresse as it mento...

2010-01-12T08:08:09.625-08:00

in india wife swapping is not incresse as it menton in i=this articlebecause in our histry we know our culture .

Mr Razib Ahmed, Do you have knowledge of ancient i...

2009-10-31T06:42:59.962-07:00

Mr Razib Ahmed,
Do you have knowledge of ancient indian culter?
Such activites(wife swap.. etc) are rooted from
indian centuries back Ok .. not from western country. Plus you are making your living
by writing such articles. Rest every one knows what is what. Spend some time in good cause rather than discussing people's private business.

Kishore

It is true that in india people generally do not a...

2009-08-31T10:13:58.337-07:00

It is true that in india people generally do not accept swapping of their life partners but the fact remains that many of the people are enjoying and getting a lot of pleasure by loosing nothing . In big cities in hi-fi societies this has become quite common and it is growing day by day. It is coming to middle class and upper class of people also . I feel there is nothing wrong unless and until it is done forcefully. Swapping among the willing couples causes no worry at all